How hardness works

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Right now, I won't talk about my experiences or the perception of the world; it will be more of a reflection after a long conversation.

This world, quite harsh, is not simple; it contains much suffering, pain, and trials.

Some of us face these trials unprepared, suddenly. After struggling, but having traveled the path, they realize themselves that it was not an easy path, but anyone who goes will overcome.

And then they start broadcasting their vision of this "harsh world" as a kind of norm. They start engaging in a good cause, "preparing" the younger ones for the fact that this world is very harsh. They see a mentoring mission in this. One might say they prepare for real life. They see the danger in someone thinking the world is good. That they will stay in ignorance of the world's harshness. These people with good intentions will educate the inexperienced, not even talking about the harshness, but showing it by example. To thoroughly prepare the young.

What we get in the end: to harshness is added more harshness, but this harshness is supposedly justified by good intentions. It's like parents who beat their children with belts a little less than their parents beat them because they are humanists. But yes, without this, there will be no upbringing because the world is harsh.

Maybe in these considerations, I mixed up many things, and everything is not so simple. But please, I even beg, STOP spreading harshness, stop being mentors of life. It's better to extend a hand of mutual assistance, acceptance, and love to one another.

The harshness in the world will not disappear anyway, and we will be each other's support in which a person can stand in this complicated world.